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« on: July 10, 2010, 09:40:41 AM »

Hey guys, I need some help with meditation.

Everytime I try to meditate i just can't clear my mind, thoughts just keep popping into my head.

So could any of you guys give me any ideas to help clear my mind during meditation?

Thanks in advance.
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« Reply #1 on: July 10, 2010, 10:16:57 AM »

Think of the numbers 0 to 9. Visualize a black screen, while having a white paint brush with infinite white paint. Paint the numbers on the screen, while paying attention to how the paint smells, how it feels like to have the brush brush against something else, while also noticing how fluid the brush feels like. Thoughts will get in; that is inevitable. But acknowledge the thoughts and just let them go. This is not to say you should go and ignore them; usually what happens is that you start thinking more about them. But don't place too much importance in those thoughts. That is, do not participate in the thoughts. If you just stick to the painting exercise the other thoughts will slowly start to go away. You can incorporate other senses as well; hear maybe some rough noises when the brush moves against the screen, while focusing on the taste of nothing and the good 'ole paint smell. What helps is to do this exercise with your eyes open first. What happens to me is that when I have my eyes closed thoughts tend to rush in in bigger amounts. Once you feel comfortable doing this exercise with your eyes open then proceed to close your eyes. Just keep trying with your eyes closed until you can reach a full set of 0-9. Then you can just keep repeating sets until you feel comfortable that you have gained a little bit of personal mind control. Then post another topic and I'll help you again.
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« Reply #2 on: July 14, 2010, 08:45:48 PM »

Such complex visualizations are not necessary in order to achieve the goal stated at the end of your post ("personal mind control," which is simple Concentration), and is certainly not suitable for those who are not skilled in plastic visualization. If it so happens to work for you, that is wonderful--but I would like to simply remind you that different people have different natural talents, and so your personal visualizations may not be as effective for everyone else.

To continue--the following are three basic, almost universal meditations that I personally advise being practiced in the order listed, moving on to the next (while maintaining the previous!) as success and, eventually, mastery of each is attained.

The first is known as Thought Observation, and is an exercise in mental self-awareness and relaxation.
Taking up whatever posture you use to meditate, turn your attention inwards and observe your thoughts. Don't focus on any particular one, don't push or pull any thoughts in or out of your mind--simply observe. Watch, passively, as each thought pops up, and then let it go. Observe as the next thought pops up, and then let it go. Don't visualize anything, don't focus on anything, just observe the natural state of your mind, as passively and mentally relaxed as possible.

This has the effect of allowing you to become more aware of your mental process, understanding yourself better. Additionally, by observing the thoughts passively and learning to relax your mind, the raging tempest eventually calms and your mind relaxes, until the thoughts come much less frequently and with less strength. Consistent practice of this leads to a state of mental calm that I consider ones Center, and can be returned to any time you want during the day via the common practice of Centering. Those who persist with this meditation, along with the practice of Centering between meditation sessions, may find that this Center eventually becomes one's normal state of mind.

The second is known as Focal Meditation, and is a direct exercise in developing Concentration and Will Power.
Find something you are comfortable concentrating on--a dot on the wall, a candle flame, or anything else you can think of (even the back of your closed eye lids work perfectly, if you can concentrate on them well enough). This will be your Focal Point.

Take up your meditation posture and concentrate on your focal point, with complete undivided attention. Let no other thought interrupt your concentration, and if it does, remove it from your mind immediately. Concentrate completely and totally on your focal point, until it is the only thing that exists in your mind for the entirety of the practice--with your eyes open or closed does not matter, though closed may be more difficult (at first!) depending on the focal point and ones innate visualization skills. Do not, however, tense up and "force" your concentration. Relax your mind and let your absolute focus be a natural bi-product of your previously discovered Center.

Consistent practice of this exercise develops a greater sense of Concentration, wherein you can focus completely on any task at hand without having to wage an internal war with your mind. The uses for developing such a skill should be obvious, not just to psionics but to daily life in general.

The third is known as Void Meditation, and is a meditation for deepening ones Center by relaxing the mind more completely.
Take up your meditation posture and, again, turn your attention inwards. This time, instead of observing your thoughts or focusing on one particular thing, the goal is to remove all thoughts entirely--turning your mind into a state of complete void. Let all thoughts go, even your focal point, and just relax into simply being. Should any thoughts come up, make use of what you learned in Thought Observation to let go of them, and continue to relax into a deeper and deeper state of Emptiness.

This exercise is the basic meditation for various spiritual traditions, and has certain practical use for developing various receptive psionic abilities (such as scanning, ect) wherein it's required of you to clear your mind and receive information from external sources without your mind getting in the way (Analytical Overlay).

I personally find that these three basic exercises will suite the needs of any practitioner, regardless of previous experience or talent in things such as visualization. Hopefully this post also suites the needs of the original poster.



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« Reply #3 on: July 14, 2010, 11:19:12 PM »

Such complex visualizations...
It's not that complex. Just visualize a black screen, while using tactile visualization to feel a brush in order to increase the vividness. This will help drone out other thoughts, and seeing that he is having a specific trouble with intruding thoughts. Then just imagine actually drawing whatever he wants, so he can input more of himself into the process.

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...are not necessary in order to achieve the goal stated at the end of your post ("personal mind control," which is simple Concentration)...
Not only concentration, since if it was that easy then I could have placed myself in an endless loop of dreaming easily. It goes beyond that; the feeling of losing oneself and their senses requires most of the time previous experience. A little bit of experimentation is also required.

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...and is certainly not suitable for those who are not skilled in plastic visualization.
It's a simple exercise. And define plastic visualization; that is a term I have never heard of before.

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If it so happens to work for you, that is wonderful--but I would like to simply remind you that different people have different natural talents, and so your personal visualizations may not be as effective for everyone else.
Never did I state they must perform the exercise I have enlisted in my first post. I would also like to remind you that
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different people have different natural talents
, so if it works for them then that is wonderful. If not then they are free to choose another exercise. It's only obvious that my personal *visualization exercises won't bring on the same results as other exercises might for the same person trying it out.

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Let no other thought interrupt your concentration, and if it does, remove it from your mind immediately.
I would be careful on using certain words. "Removing the thought" is to destroy or ignore it, both which do not ultimately remove the thought. I'm not sure what the url is, but there has been a study conducted that has been shown that if people are told not to focus on one thing the chances of thinking about it increase. The better wording would be, "passively observe and shift your attention back to the focal point". You can't destroy a thought, and trying to ignore it would only make it worse.

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Do not, however, tense up and "force" your concentration. Relax your mind and let your absolute focus be a natural bi-product of your previously discovered Center.
One has to force concentration. The point of centering is not to bring concentration, but to create a clearer mind, while learning how not to place too much importance in ones thoughts. Concentration will always require effort, since it is the act of paying attention to a thought. In this situation you are paying attention to a complex thought which incorporates the senses if the eyes are open, which would be the focal point. If the eyes are closed then you are still paying attention to a thought, though it is slightly less complex. If you did not pay attention to the thought then concentration would no longer be induced. Therefore to concentrate on something one must be conscious of the process, since to observe a thought one must be conscious of doing so.

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This time, instead of observing your thoughts or focusing on one particular thing, the goal is to remove all thoughts entirely--turning your mind into a state of complete void. Let all thoughts go, even your focal point, and just relax into simply being. Should any thoughts come up, make use of what you learned in Thought Observation to let go of them, and continue to relax into a deeper and deeper state of Emptiness.
I just want to clarify on this post; you can't force yourself to stop thinking, since that is an action and must require a thought. You just try to break out of the habit of constantly thinking and paying attention to your thoughts. To simply this exercise even further, I would argue that this exercise is simply a more lengthier version of the first exercise. The less attention one puts to ones thoughts then the less they would appear until it reaches the point a thought hardly pops up. Of course, it's impossible to completely stop thinking, but one can delay the average interval time it takes for another thought to pop up. I agree; once the time between thoughts increases then so does the relaxation, since there is nothing to think about during that gap of time. One will then just naturally relax since they have nothing else to do.
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« Reply #4 on: July 15, 2010, 07:12:00 AM »

Such complex visualizations...
It's not that complex. Just visualize a black screen, while using tactile visualization to feel a brush in order to increase the vividness. This will help drone out other thoughts, and seeing that he is having a specific trouble with intruding thoughts. Then just imagine actually drawing whatever he wants, so he can input more of himself into the process.

I stated it as complex because it is not an exercise in inner peace and thought control, so much as it's an exercise in visualization that was applied to the goal of those things. I said it was not necessary because one does not need to visualize anything in order to develop peace of mind and concentration, and though you may take offense to my wording of that point, the point still stands.

I have no doubt that your exercise will work for many people, but there are many people who are not skilled in any form of visualization at all, and others who do not wish to be. And so, for them, your exercise is not simple at all, and is in fact completely useless to them. I do not wish to make this an argument, but I have been involved with many such people and even practice a system of psionics myself where visualization is not even directly necessary, and so I wanted to clarify my point.


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...and is certainly not suitable for those who are not skilled in plastic visualization.
And define plastic visualization; that is a term I have never heard of before.

Plastic Visualization is the faculty of being able to visualize something in ones mind, with eyes open or closed, in such detail and clarity that it appears to be almost physically real. It is actual Visualization rather then uncontrolled daydreaming, and is called Plastic for that and other reasons. It requires a great deal of concentration to maintain, and is thus usually better learned after one has already developed some concentration through more basic meditation. Skipping directly to plastic visualization is akin to skipping first and maybe even second grade, and expecting to be an ace second or third grader--some can do it, but certainly not everyone.

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Let no other thought interrupt your concentration, and if it does, remove it from your mind immediately.
I would be careful on using certain words. "Removing the thought" is to destroy or ignore it, both which do not ultimately remove the thought. I'm not sure what the url is, but there has been a study conducted that has been shown that if people are told not to focus on one thing the chances of thinking about it increase. The better wording would be, "passively observe and shift your attention back to the focal point". You can't destroy a thought, and trying to ignore it would only make it worse.

Removing it from the mind is the goal, and so that is the way I wrote it. Should the reader have practiced the first exercise as I have advised before moving on to this one, they would know how to do this properly (and if such is not "proper," it is certainly easier or more efficient). And even for those who practice this exercise exclusively, most people learn in time.

One has to force concentration.

Not in the sense wherein force implies tension. Natural concentration should not come as the result of an internal war, but should be the natural by-product of relaxing the mind and, without the distraction of extra thoughts, being able to focus on the task at hand more completely. This is why I emphasize developing ones sense of Center with the first exercise before moving on to other meditations, since once you've calmed the storm of thoughts with thought observation, concentration becomes less an exercise in straining yourself and more an exercise in relaxing yourself.

I just want to clarify on this post; you can't force yourself to stop thinking, since that is an action and must require a thought. You just try to break out of the habit of constantly thinking and paying attention to your thoughts. To simply this exercise even further, I would argue that this exercise is simply a more lengthier version of the first exercise. The less attention one puts to ones thoughts then the less they would appear until it reaches the point a thought hardly pops up. Of course, it's impossible to completely stop thinking, but one can delay the average interval time it takes for another thought to pop up. I agree; once the time between thoughts increases then so does the relaxation, since there is nothing to think about during that gap of time. One will then just naturally relax since they have nothing else to do.

Yes, this is a "longer" version of the first exercise. And yes, one can stop thinking entirely, eventually. Just ask Buddha, since this is one of the preferred meditations of his tradition.  Also, these exercises come from a spiritual tradition wherein the ultimate goal is complete self-mastery on all levels, leading to what you may call Enlightenment. Whether or not anyone here makes it that far with these meditations is another matter entirely, but I posted the exercises in their entirety anyway for the sake of wholeness.

What must also be understood is that these exercises are not meant to be mastered in days or weeks. The first may take months or even years to fully master, the second may take years or more, and the third may take a lifetime. It certainly doesn't take this long to see results, though, and once one has decent success with one he may move on to the next (while maintaining the former!). So any who are on the path of self-mastery will likely find them useful.



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« Reply #5 on: July 15, 2010, 09:37:32 AM »


One has to force concentration.

Not in the sense wherein force implies tension. Natural concentration should not come as the result of an internal war, but should be the natural by-product of relaxing the mind and, without the distraction of extra thoughts, being able to focus on the task at hand more completely. This is why I emphasize developing ones sense of Center with the first exercise before moving on to other meditations, since once you've calmed the storm of thoughts with thought observation, concentration becomes less an exercise in straining yourself and more an exercise in relaxing yourself.
It's very important to emphasize this.
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« Reply #6 on: July 15, 2010, 05:07:39 PM »

I stated it as complex because it is not an exercise in inner peace and thought control, so much as it's an exercise in visualization that was applied to the goal of those things.
The exercise will induce relaxation as a side effect, which will bring inner peace. One of the main reasons for stress is because people worry, so by having less thoughts, including that of worrying, then people will naturally relax. This does induce mind control, since it requires concentration in order to even perform the exercise in the first place. Almost every meditation practice will include some form of visualization. Remember, the OPs goal is to clear their head of thoughts in the first place. This exercise already completes that requirement, so no further addition is needed. However, if the OP wanted to decrease the number of intruding thoughts they have then they should refer to your exercises.

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I said it was not necessary because one does not need to visualize anything in order to develop peace of mind and concentration, and though you may take offense to my wording of that point, the point still stands.
I don't take offense. One form of peaceful meditation that helps clear the mind is focusing on ones heart beat or to focus on ones breath, both which require no visualization but the focus of tactile sensations. I never said that visualizations are required to relax.

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I have no doubt that your exercise will work for many people, but there are many people who are not skilled in any form of visualization at all, and others who do not wish to be. And so, for them, your exercise is not simple at all, and is in fact completely useless to them. I do not wish to make this an argument, but I have been involved with many such people and even practice a system of psionics myself where visualization is not even directly necessary, and so I wanted to clarify my point.
I'm sorry, but stating that is already obvious; like I said, results will always differ by person. Like I said, I never stated the OP must do my exercise in order to clear their head. My exercise is an option. The OP has not given me any more information, so there's no restrictions on the practice. I can say the same thing of your exercises as well: there are people like me who don't really care about lengthening their delay between thoughts, or the feeling of inner peace. I just want to clear my head when I need to clear it, and that is final. I also like to constantly do something, even while physically resting, so I need something to focus on at all times. Your first exercise is then invalid, since to simply observe and do nothing is one of those things I can hardly do. Therefore I had to make up my own exercise that includes visualization, since it requires on my part effort. And I love watching things move and moving them in the first place. So just stating that my exercise is completely useless not only turns off potential people who can benefit from my exercise, but you are also stating I am unaware of the fact that different people have different needs. Obviously this was never an argument to begin with, since you are holding steadfast to your personal beliefs. I respect that, but stating that my beliefs are "misguided" and that my years of experience in meditation has just vanished annoys me. So please stop the ad hominem, since you cannot prove my exercise is inferior to yours. You must also note that you have initiated the insult towards me by stating:

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If it so happens to work for you, that is wonderful--but I would like to simply remind you that different people have different natural talents, and so your personal visualizations may not be as effective for everyone else.
, stating I did not directly answer the OP request, which I take very seriously since I am against misrepresentation of knowledge. This is also not my fault, since once again the OP did not post the areas they lack in.

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Plastic Visualization is the faculty of being able to visualize something in ones mind, with eyes open or closed, in such detail and clarity that it appears to be almost physically real ... Skipping directly to plastic visualization is akin to skipping first and maybe even second grade, and expecting to be an ace second or third grader--some can do it, but certainly not everyone.
You are clearly not reading the wording of my posts right and assuming things right off of the bat. Not even once did I state the OP must see the things they are visualizing. Visualization is actually very easy and anyone can do it. Just think of a red ball and if you see one then it's great. But one can also see it in ones mind eye, which anyone can actually do. I have personally attained the visualization level where I can see the objects with my eyes closed, but like you stated it usually requires years of effort. According to your definition, I use plastic visualization; however, the exercise I described did not require plastic visualization from anyones part.

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Removing it from the mind is the goal, and so that is the way I wrote it. Should the reader have practiced the first exercise as I have advised before moving on to this one, they would know how to do this properly (and if such is not "proper," it is certainly easier or more efficient). And even for those who practice this exercise exclusively, most people learn in time.
The exercise you described doesn't remove the thought from the mind, but only shifts the intention of the OP to passively observe, which are the key words. By not participating in the thought, the thought itself will disperse since attention is needed to sustain its durability. The thought being removed is only a side effect of passively observing it; the actual goal is to learn how to separate oneself from their own thoughts.

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Not in the sense wherein force implies tension. Natural concentration should not come as the result of an internal war, but should be the natural by-product of relaxing the mind and, without the distraction of extra thoughts, being able to focus on the task at hand more completely. This is why I emphasize developing ones sense of Center with the first exercise before moving on to other meditations, since once you've calmed the storm of thoughts with thought observation, concentration becomes less an exercise in straining yourself and more an exercise in relaxing yourself.
But there is no such thing as natural concentration. The only concentration I have ever experienced is when I figuratively stare at a thought, which is to say I shift my attention to nothing to something. From there I only sustain the attention, which creates the term concentration. By having only a single thought while being incredibly relaxed, shifting ones attention from nothing to something should be easier. However, effort is still required, thus concentration is still induced by conscious will. Like you keep saying in this section, concentration becomes easier, but is still not brought on by itself. Thus, someone still has to force concentration, which is to say in this case the OP must still put effort in order to concentrate on something. I was arguing this point; since it seems you agree I don't understand why you would post this part, since it seems irrelevant.

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Yes, this is a "longer" version of the first exercise. And yes, one can stop thinking entirely, eventually. Just ask Buddha, since this is one of the preferred meditations of his tradition.  Also, these exercises come from a spiritual tradition wherein the ultimate goal is complete self-mastery on all levels, leading to what you may call Enlightenment. Whether or not anyone here makes it that far with these meditations is another matter entirely, but I posted the exercises in their entirety anyway for the sake of wholeness.
No, one can never stop thinking entirely since they will never get anything done. Someone stating they have completely stopped thinking is not proof that it's possible to stop thinking; that is only a claim without evidence. Even though I have much respect for Guatama Buddha, I still think he, or his disciples, might have exaggerated on some aspects of his practice/life. I don't think your exercises are useless; in fact, I actually think they are helpful and have even helped me review some of the principles and important aspects of meditation that I already knew. To the point of enlightenment though; some people state that it's a state where the individual becomes fully aware of their situation and can finally become one with the "Great One", which is to say the creator of the universe. Of course, I like to take the simpler road and state it is simply when someone has reached a level where they can take events from their life and to accept them as truth, whereby most people at this stage will elude themselves from reality and try to manipulate the facts for some personal purpose. I also think it's when someone can go beyond the feeling of suffering and desire, since they have no regrets and can therefore no longer suffer, and that desire for let's say an apple is really no different to a cup, just that they have a different form and that they personally induce a different feeling inside of you once contact is made. All is well once the person can find inner peace with their actions and their personality, which I personally find what enlightenment is geared towards. I haven't met anybody who is truly okay with who they are, what they are, and what makes them to who they are.

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What must also be understood is that these exercises are not meant to be mastered in days or weeks. The first may take months or even years to fully master, the second may take years or more, and the third may take a lifetime. It certainly doesn't take this long to see results, though, and once one has decent success with one he may move on to the next (while maintaining the former!). So any who are on the path of self-mastery will likely find them useful.
Aye, mastering concentration itself requires massive amounts of years, which require massive amounts of dedication.To measure oneself and claim they have mastered an area is also difficult, since there is nothing to compare their skill level with. To see results usually takes at least a week, depending on how much effort and time they place into the practice of meditation. It's good to keep up with the basics, even while doing the advanced practices; the advanced exercises stem from basic principles, so ignoring the basics will make the advanced exercises obsolete.
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« Reply #7 on: July 15, 2010, 09:51:34 PM »

I apologize for causing a misunderstanding, Issac. I do not mean to imply that your meditation is inferior, only that it is not suitable for everyone who may read this (and remembering the perspective of a absolute beginner, I certainly remember my difficulty with such meditations), and that hopefully my own presentation to the thread would help those who could not use it as easily you do.

My choice of words is poor, and added to the different perspectives of our different practices, things seem to have degraded into a matter of semantics and personal opinion. I have perhaps misunderstood you, and have certainly failed in presenting my opinions correctly.  My purpose here is certainly not to belittle other practices, and again, I apologize.



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« Reply #8 on: July 16, 2010, 12:26:56 AM »

I apologize for causing a misunderstanding, Issac. I do not mean to imply that your meditation is inferior, only that it is not suitable for everyone who may read this (and remembering the perspective of a absolute beginner, I certainly remember my difficulty with such meditations), and that hopefully my own presentation to the thread would help those who could not use it as easily you do.

My choice of words is poor, and added to the different perspectives of our different practices, things seem to have degraded into a matter of semantics and personal opinion. I have perhaps misunderstood you, and have certainly failed in presenting my opinions correctly.  My purpose here is certainly not to belittle other practices, and again, I apologize.
It's alright. I'm just waiting for a response from the OP himself.
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« Reply #9 on: July 16, 2010, 06:23:15 AM »

I apologize for causing a misunderstanding, Issac. I do not mean to imply that your meditation is inferior, only that it is not suitable for everyone who may read this (and remembering the perspective of a absolute beginner, I certainly remember my difficulty with such meditations), and that hopefully my own presentation to the thread would help those who could not use it as easily you do.

My choice of words is poor, and added to the different perspectives of our different practices, things seem to have degraded into a matter of semantics and personal opinion. I have perhaps misunderstood you, and have certainly failed in presenting my opinions correctly.  My purpose here is certainly not to belittle other practices, and again, I apologize.
It's alright. I'm just waiting for a response from the OP himself.
The two of you scared him away xD
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« Reply #10 on: July 16, 2010, 01:58:57 PM »

I know, it's just there are hardly any meditation arguments. It's usually either politics or religion, but never about ones consciousness. I am seriously interested in the mind, to the point I can dedicate the rest of my existence finding out about its secrets. That's for another time though. So psiman, would you like to opt in the discussion?
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« Reply #11 on: July 20, 2010, 06:54:11 AM »

Oh sorry guys I forgot about this thread,lol.
I seem to be getting better with my meditations.
Both issacweirdo`s and shins meditations seemed to put me in a deeper meditative state than before
I asked you guys.

Thanks for the help.
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« Reply #12 on: July 24, 2010, 09:48:19 PM »

Well, my lifes mission in this thread is complete. I hope you have some more fun with our exercises, while hopefully the argument gave you a glimpse on how others view meditation and the mind.
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